Saturday, March 19, 2011

LINING UP TOYS

This is my toddler's favorite past time.....to line up things. She is a very neat and organized little girl. She lines up her toys or slippers in a row and in circular shape. She's also talking and singing them a song. It is so funny! 
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But do you know that others find it alarming and not normal?
And so, I checked out related sites to know more about it...

Lining up toys is a manifestation of several underlying issues that, together, are red flags for autism. Those issues include:
  • Lack of imitation skills. Typically-developing children watch how others play with toys and imitate them. For example, a typically-developing child might choose to line up blocks one next to the other the first time they play with them. But as soon as the typically developing child sees others build with the blocks, he will imitate that behavior. A child with autism may not even notice that others are playing with blocks at all, and is very unlikely to observe others' behavior and then intuitively begin to imitate that behavior.
  • Lack of symbolic play skills. Symbolic play is just another term for pretend play, and by the age of three, most children have developed fairly sophisticated tools for engaging in symbolic play both alone and with others. They may use toys exactly as they're designed -- playing "house" with a pretend kitchen and eating plastic food. Or they may make up their own creative pretend play, turning a box into a fortress or a stuffed animal into a talking playmate. Children with autism rarely develop symbolic play skills without help: They may enjoy placing engines on a track, but they're unlikely to enact scenes, make sound effects, or otherwise pretend with their toy trains.
  • Lack of social communication skills. In order to be successful in pretend play and imitation, typically developing children actively seek out engagement and communication, and quickly learn how to "read" the intentions of other people. Children with autism tend to be self-absorbed, and have little desire to communicate or engage with playmates.
Lining up toys is a perfectly normal thing that perfectly normal-developing toddlers often do. After all, lining things up is a good way to bring order from chaos. For children, "play" is really developmental work, and the process of learning to play is the process of learning to successfully engage in the world.





7 comments:

The Budget Diet said...

This brings back memories of my son lining up all his matchbox cars!

Dhemz said...

hehehe...ang cute talaga pag ganitong stage...akesha used to do this when she was at her age....:)

The Beauty-Addict said...

missing my nephew! :) he loves to sing also for us :)) great post! interesting!;)

w0rkingAth0mE said...

Gawain ito ni kyla ngayon eh .. One time nga nakita ko nilabas lahat ng shoes at slippers na pwede nya magamit grabe kinalat lahat hehe

Anne said...

Sa akin naman books. I was worried about autism and such though good thing you said lining up those is normal.

fashioneggpplant said...

she is so cute! i remember when my daughter used to pick up and throw everything in sight! lol :)

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carinamodella said...

thanks for all your thoughts. there are many underlying issues to consider it as a sign of autism. cheers to all bloggers!

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